Dating for authentic people
If you are not part of the herd then you should find others also not part of it, as herd membership requires sacrifice of individualism and an inability to individuate as Jung believed was necessary and you must not question.
So this may be a behind the scenes reason for why you are finding it hard.
The other issue of stupidity is largely a lack of a will or drive to educate and the famous Dunning-Kruger effect by which the less competent imagine themselves to be much better than they are.
This is largely the herd mentality Nietzsche spoke of at length.
Often because you will be meeting people that do not mesh with you so they will seem non genuine but will seem geniune to others like them. So you need to make sure you have a good view on that. If you are in a minority as I am, then you will probably still find this difficult as there will be a statistical odd against you, however the people you will meet by embracing this will also be in the same boat and you will also meet people very different to you, who accept you as you are, so it’s not all about having everything in common it’s more mutual acceptance.
The first step is to recognise the sort of person you are, which things about you are common and which are rare, as you need to find people on your wavelength.
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Field tests show it’s 10 times better than previous versions.I try not to label people stupid or dumb, but I do it to myself when I do such things.However some people truly take the biscuit when it comes to stupidity and I can’t be around that as I find it not geniune as often excessive lies also characterise this type which sadly is quite common. In the age of social media and online dating, more and more people are concerned with projecting the image others want to see, not the person they truly are.This makes it challenging to see through to the person they are on the inside.