Dating separated men kids
I don’t want to lose him because I truly believe he is the love of my life. I’ve never received an email from a happily coupled up woman asking me for advice on her non-existent problems.And I know parting ways right now was the right thing to do. So here’s what we DO know:– You chose to date a separated man who still lives with his wife.What’s right for you is to break it off entirely, cut him off entirely, and, when you’re ready, start dating an emotionally available man who doesn’t have a wife at home.I guarantee that you can find these same “in love” feelings without all the complications.
Hate to tell you, my dear, but you’re in way over your head. You are exhibiting all the feelings of a woman in love — the high highs, the low lows, the obsessive thinking, the lack of perspective, the need to put his feelings before yours — but this is not love.
Unfortunately, he is married (separated) and getting divorced.
There has been an incredible amount of transparency regarding this – the issue, however, is that in the course of our relationship, there has been no real progress to go through with the divorce.
I have told him I support him 100% in whatever he needs to figure things out in his life.
I know that he needs to do this in order to truly be able to pursue a future with me.