Reasons not to use dating sites
I hardly ever got anyone with kids, or who was recently divorced.
This brings me to the second part of the problem: these men were too set in their ways to be happy with any woman. Online dating ruined my confidence for a long time.
I think I look pretty good for my age, have a variety of interests, and generally can get along with most people.
When I signed up for Match dot com at age 38, I thought it was going to be a piece of cake. I was on it for a year and never met anyone I clicked with romantically.
If you’re looking to date anyone seriously enough to know if they have siblings, then listen up: Make all the little apps shake in fear and then delete them. Either would get you closer to dating someone you actually like than Tinder will. It’s like dental surgery: Some people hate it, some people tolerate it, and you’re fucking nuts if you enjoy it.
But because we think there’s a chance we might get laid or loved, we’re willing to pay any price—even our precious free time.
Like most people, I tend to present the "best" version of myself on Facebook, but my potential suitors knew (or knew of) me as a real person first.
It's the same burger, same ingredients, same bun, but it's never going to be evaluated and tweaked and fussed over as much as it does when it's being presented to potential buyers.
And I know I came across worse in dates than I usually do when meeting someone I don't know.
I had several "mini-relationships" before this one took hold, all of them kindled through Facebook.
Dating a Facebook "friend" didn't bring with it the same nervousness, so I probably performed better. I'm lucky, because if all I had was Match and the like, I'd probably have shot myself by now.